Andy Pugh is a close family friend and would like to give you an insight into the character of the sadly missed Joe Dymond-Williams. (Andy will also be performing at The Colston Hall in the band Chuff and is a driving force and Daz's right hand man in the organisation of this massive project)
Thanks for taking the time to read this. I hope I can give you an insight onto the reasons why this year’s ‘Daz’s Rock 4 Charity’ concert means so much to so many people.
On July 8th, 2008, at the age of just 17, this world lost one of the most intelligent, articulate, caring, honest, and nicest young people you’ll ever know. To say we lost him is incorrect, he was actually taken from us following a vicious and brutal assault in the centre of Bristol. Two thugs are now serving time, (and not nearly enough time) in prison for their crime.
Joe Dymond-Williams was everything you would want your son to be. Highly intelligent and bright, he was also very aware of those around him who were having difficulties in their lives. Joe would never think twice about trying to help, whether it was the new lad in school who needed a friend and to be included, or the person being bullied who needed help, Joe was always there. A gifted footballer, Joe played for Ashton Boys, Yate Town and Bishop Sutton never giving less than 100% in training or during matches, and consistently showing the strength of character that always shone through, whatever he was doing.
My family and I were lucky enough to have known Joe well. He came into our lives having met my daughter at an Ashton Boys football tournament, and had a massive impact on her and us as a family. I got to see for myself just what a decent, caring and thoughtful lad he was. Being a 42 year cynical old git, I don’t say this lightly, but Joe Dymond-Williams was, still is, and always will be, an absolute hero to me. Please don’t underestimate what I’ve just said. Our community is desperately short of people with such natural, intelligent social skills, and a willingness to use those skills and attributes that Joe so often displayed. Joe wasn’t just taken from his proud parents, sisters, family, friends, team mates and everyone else who knew him, he was taken from all of us. A shocking waste of a talented young man’s life and the lives of his loved ones ruined.
Joe enhanced the lives of so many people, each one of whom has felt his loss greatly, and none more so than the person who nurtured, encouraged and supported him in all he did. His Dad, John Williams deserves immense credit for the massive influence he had on Joe and the role model that he was, who Joe looked up too. Sure, his Mum gave her son the unconditional love, care and attention you would expect, but it has been John who, over the years, instilled all of the values and characteristics that Joe showed throughout his all too short life.
This year’s ‘Daz’s Rock 4 Charity’ concert is in memory of Joe Dymond-Williams. His Mum has chosen the Rainbow Centre in Bristol as the organisation to benefit from what promises to be a great night of entertainment, featuring some top local acts, several of whom Joe enjoyed watching. I’m proud to be part of an event that I hope will keep Joe’s memory burning in the hearts of everyone who knew him, for a very long time to come. Please remember all that this boy stood for, respect for others, the ability to help when others are ultimately in trouble, and the strength of character to stand up for your principles.
I hope you can make the effort and support this event in his memory.
Take care,
Andy Pugh
